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The Meaning of Life!!!

Posted on May 13th, 2008 by Nara-Narayana : RADIATING LOVE ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥  Nara-Narayana

What is the meaning of life??? This is a very good question. Let us take a look at what a few authors, of some very good books, have said about this subject.

"The world is nothing in itself. Your mind must give it meaning. And what you behold upon it are your wishes, acted out so you can look on them and think them real. Perhaps you think you did not make the world, but came unwillingly to what was made already, hardly waiting for your thoughts to give it meaning. Yet in truth you found exactly what you looked for when you came.
There is no world apart from what you wish, and herein lies your ultimate release. Change but your mind on what you want to see, and all the world must change accordingly."
--A Course in Miracles

"The master and the student on the journey to mastery, knows that the illusions are the illusions, decides why they are there, and then consciously creates what will be experienced next within the self through the illusions. When facing any life experience, there is a formula, a process, through which you may choose to move through mastery. Simply make the following statements: One, nothing in my world is real. Two, The meaning of everything is the meaning I give it. Three, I am who I say I am, and my experience is what I say it is. This is how to work with the illusions of life." --Neale Donald Walsch: Communion with God

"All that we are is a result of what we have thought."--Unknown

The world you see is a reflection of what you think of it. The values by which you live are continually coming back to you.

Your life embodies those ideas to which you give your complete and persistent attention. A life sincerely focused upon peace and happiness is a life filled with peace and happiness.

Whatever you support with your actions and thoughts, you experience in the moments and days of your life. Whether desire or fear, curiosity or obsession, your thoughts pull you steadfastly toward your reality.

You are, right now, busy becoming the person you think you will become. Today, already and always, you are living the life you most authentically expect to live.

The simple act of intentionally deciding upon a destination will point you solidly in that direction. A small adjustment in your attitude can make a major difference in your world.

Anything is possible. What actually happens in your life is an accurate reflection of how you see yourself living it.-- Ralph Marston

Well I guess that answers that!?! The world seems to be nothing more than what we think it is!?! What do you think of that??? Well I'll tell you what I think of that - I think that the world that I see is a beautiful place, and I think that all of its inhabitants are wonderfully beautiful souls. And anyone who thinks differently is doing just that -looking at the same thing and thinking differently about it; such is the beauty of life!!! One is not better than the other, for neither one is real to anyone else but the one doing the thinking.

What do you think of the world that you see around you?!? Does that thought feel good!?! If not, maybe you should rethink your world!?!

Life is what I make of it

Nothing bad can befall you least you think it so! Nothing good can enter your world unless you expect it. Thoughts lead to expectations. Expectations lead to experience. Experience is life itself. What do you wish to experience in your world?!? Think about it!!!

~Namaste~
*deep bow*
Brian
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debyemm : Tree Hugging Dirt Worshiper
3 days later
debyemm said

No wonder you showed up in my grapevine today, I'll been contemplating what constitutes life, what is that essence?  It seems as though it is a movement, though some of the movements of life be so slow they appear not to.  Yet, when something is what we call “living” it moves and when it ceases to move, we know that essence has left that form and returned whence it came.


Life is but does it truly have a meaning?  That is very hard to answer, is it not?  We are here, we grow, we have experiences, we fill ourselves up with it all and then we begin to let go of everything we once thought important, until we reach a point where even allowing the expression of life through us becomes meaningless and we let go of that particular form.


It is said that Birth and Death are the same doorway.  One enters through Birth and leaves through Death.  Life has no opposite.  Would not meaning indicate there was then something life was not?  A very profound and impossible to answer question but you did give it a good go … I absolutely, completely enjoyed reading the “answer” from the perspective of Neale Donald Walsch, who's Home with God about the process of death has been a favorite topic of mine in the Living Metaphysics pod/group.

I thought your words summed it up perfectly -

The world seems to be … what we think it is … I think that the world that I see is a beautiful place, and I think that all of its inhabitants are wonderfully beautiful souls. And anyone who thinks differently is doing just that -looking at the same thing and thinking differently about it; …

Said perfectly,


Deborah

5 days later
Don said

Deborah,

I agree with what you said here, I want to add a little to it.

The world seems to be … what we think it is … I think that the world that I see is a beautiful place, and I think that all of its inhabitants are wonderfully beautiful souls. And anyone who thinks differently is doing just that -looking at the same thing and thinking differently about it…and babaly adding more to the world the thing that they do not want .

Your friend,Don

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5 days later
Nara-Narayana said

Hello my friends,


Deborah…………….you asked two very good questions. And I will try my best to answer them. You first asked, “Life is but does it truly have a meaning?” To that my reply would be, ultimately life is God, source energy, pure consciousness. And that 'force,' if you will, means absolutely nothing, and everything, for we cannot be without the perception of the Being that we are BEing. Now that being said, Being does not mean a physical body, or a certain form of any kind. Instead, the way that I would describe Being would be to say that Being is the part of God 'body' (for lack of a better word) that we perceive ourselves to be. In that, I then come to the conclusion that life is whatever we are Being. But what do I now? That is just my perception of my Being as it pertains to God. :-) Only you can decide if this answer to my previously stated question is a sufficient response or not. As far as if it was hard to answer or not, all that I can reply was that it was very easy. LOL


Your second question was, “Would not meaning indicate there was then something life was not?” This is a very good question, and you are correct to ask such a question based on the original question that I asked. I see that I did not quite phrase my question to the meaning that I intended; such is the limitations of language. My intention would have been better served by me asking, what is the meaning of this life that is really an illusion that we only give meaning by our misguided thoughts that life has any meaning at all?!? But you see, this question answers itself, so I thought that if I stated it in these terms my question would not have illicit any thoughts from the reader; which is what my intention was.

Before we can see this world that we think is real as unreal, which is what it truly is, we must first realize that we have full control over our experience of it by the thoughts that we give to it. Once we come to this realization we can then give that illusion up and give ourselves fully back to our Self, which is God, and then we will see and experience life for what it truly is, which is the physical experience of God!

All we are doing in these bodies, and in this world, that we perceive as living is “Goding.” That is to say that we are doing God, and God is doing us. And when we do God, and let God do us, we will then fully realize that this is what is known as BEing - Being that which we are, with nothing getting in the way of our Self.

Don………………don't you see that the things that people are adding to this world through their thoughts and perceptions are thing that they do want? No one does anything, in this world, that they think is wrong, given their outlook on their beliefs as to the way one should live ones life. This is why Jesus said, “Forgive them for they know not what they do.” They truly are not aware of the harm that they are doing to themselves, which you also perceive as them doing harm to you. But until you see these actions as acceptable, and therefore included them into your reality then the world will remain separate. Neale Donald Walsch says this best in his book “Friendship with God” when we say, “if you don not believe that you create your own reality, then you will experience your reality as something that you did not create; proving that you create your own reality.” Whether they, or we, realize it or not, we are all creating our own reality. This is why I challenge you and everyone else to learn to create the reality that you truly wish to see. And the only reality that works for all is the reality that we are all one.

“Let us never, never forget that we are the masters of our destiny. No one in all the universes writes our script. We do that, in co-creation with our brothers. As we rewrite our script, our brother must do likewise or leave the stage of our drama.” –Peter O’ Erbe: God I Am

When we accept everyone else’s behavior then that behavior will cease to exist, because it will then be returned back to its rightful place; Oneness! When everything is returned to Oneness, everything will return back to its natural state, which is of course Pure Love.

“Pure love is who you are! When you express pure love, you give yourself the direct experience of who you are. It is the greatest gift! It looks as if your giving a gift to others, and you are giving it to yourself, that is because there is no one else in the room, it only looks as if there is.” –Neale Donald Walsch: Friendship with God

“Who is to judge one flower to be a weed and another to be a delight? The weed was a delight unto itself before judgment arrived. Now it is rejected, deprived of love and must spread to be noticed, to make its call heard. It is all one movement of life, regardless if it be a thunderstorm or an august night. To acknowledge my brother's sovereignty, to allow him the right to be however he wishes to be, it to set him free. So, the answer to the question, how to embrace my adversary, is always: embrace what you feel. This brings us back to our own attitude. If it is hate we feel or hate's milder form, which is dislike, then we embrace this emotion all the same–and without judgment, If the person's conduct is so unpleasant that his presence becomes intolerable we can remove ourself. It this is not possible, then we take action not in the form of attack but rather as a mother corrects a misbehaving child. This can be done without any judgment. The essence of this learning is this: we only experience the person or situation as unlovable because polarities were singled out and judged. We see but ourself in the other person, hence judging him is judging ourself. We would never experience an unlovable person or condition if we embraced every person or condition and welcomed them without judgment.” –Peter O’ Erbe: God I Am

Thank you both, my friends, for stopping by and adding to this wonderful life that I perceive as nothing but beautiful.

Your loving friend,
Brian.

~namaste~
*deep, deep bow*

debyemm : Tree Hugging Dirt Worshiper
6 days later
debyemm said

Brian,

Ah, I am glad you drew me here and now draw me back to continue the conversation.


Question # 1 - “meaning” - is defined at Princeton as “the message that is intended or expressed or signified”.  I had to look up the word to determine if you answered your question - “What is the meaning of life???” 

I don't disagree with your answer - that “the Being that we are BEing” is an example of “life” but is it meaning?  Perhaps, it is the only “meaning” that Life can have.  At first, I took the word “meaning” to be akin to “purpose”.  What purpose does being in life serve?

As I first contemplated what you said in your reply, I looked back at the question again.  My first reaction is that “life” doesn't have a “meaning” because “life” is simply “being”.  To me “being” isn't “meaning”, given my initial definition as “purpose”, but that life or being just “is”, is a state of “being”.  But does a “state” of “being” actually have “meaning”?  That is what you say “being” and so, in that sense, we end up at the same place, re: being, but I'm still not sure about “meaning”.

For example, what does it really “mean” that I exist?  I'm just not sure it “means” anything.  So, I go back to the definition and try from there.  “Meaning” is a “message”.  So, what “message” can “life” convey? - that I exist as an awareness?, a “being” who has temporarily taken on form?, that I might express myself in a material world?  Possibly, it does “mean” that.

So, is “life” an expression of “being” in “matter”?  I think I could agree that it is.  Does “life” exist beyond “matter”?, “matter” seems to exist without “life”, without “being”, at least to some human perceptions.  Does “life” exist apart from matter?  Some people perceive “non-physical” energy forms that express “being”.  Are these truly states of “being”? and therefore, are these a kind of “life” that exists apart from matter?

What fun it is to turn this around and around in my thoughts, my heart, my mind and my emotions.  Please do continue the conversation if it pleases you.

Deborah

6 days later
Don said

Brain,

I can not only see but I can see past that I can see. Iknow that one gets what one thinks. I'm going to ask, where does what one does not want comes from? People are getting what they don't want by thinking about what they don't want. It's like praying, most do not know how to pray, when someone tells me they will pray for me, I say ,PLEASE DON'T. I say this because when we pray we should only mention the thing we want not the thing we do not want! Example: A man prays for an hour before leaving on vacation with his family, he prays he don't want no car accidents, no flait tires, no break downs, no accidents for his family, can you see where I'm going with this, my mouth has got me in more trouble, we can blame the mouth but it's deeper then that.

My friend asked me a few years back to pray for his son that was over there in the war, I said ” Steve I have thoughts of your son oftend and I pray for him everytime I do, but I pray different then most people do. When I have that thought about how your son is doing ect. I say he is just find he is in Gods hand, that's it. Steve later came to me and thanked me for sharing with him on how I pray and he also said his ex-wife thanks me.Most are not interested in me because I'm simple, I really like being simple, I like it so much that that is what I want to master in, being simple. That's where the real love comes from. I'm like Forest Gump, I not smart but I know what Wisdom is. Bring it on! This may be something that keeps me hanging out here longer.

Your friend, Don

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6 days later
Nara-Narayana said

Deborah my good friend, I see that these thoughts and questions are really important to you, and that is good, because once you find the answer to these questions, for yourself, you will truly understand the “meaning” of “life.”  :-)

You asked many questions and I will try my best, once again, to answer them for you.

The definition that Princeton gave for the word “meaning” says it all within it's self: ”the message that is intended or expressed or signified.” Do you not see that that is all that we (Beings dwelling within physical bodies) are doing in this physical world? We are expressing the significance of ourselves (Being), as we see ourselves, through these bodies that we are using to share the “message” of the “meaning” of our Beings to the rest of the world. This, to me, is the meaning of life!

At first, I took the word “meaning” to be akin to “purpose”.  What purpose does being in life serve? Deborah……this is where I think that you might be getting caught up. To me “purpose” in “life” leads to the “meaning” of “life.” Here is the definition of “purpose” that I got from dictionary.com:

1. the reason for which something exists or is done, made, used, etc.

2. an intended or desired result; end; aim; goal.

3. determination; resoluteness.

 4. the subject in hand; the point at issue.

 5. practical result, effect, or advantage: to act to good purpose.

–verb (used with object)

6. to set as an aim, intention, or goal for oneself.

 7. to intend; design.

 8. to resolve (to do something): He purposed to change his way of life radically.

–verb (used without object)

9. to have a purpose.

—Idioms

10. on purpose, by design; intentionally: How could you do such a thing on purpose?

 11. to the purpose, relevant; to the point: Her objections were not to the purpose.

To me the verb (used with an object) describes “purpose” perfectly. As we continue to set intentions for our “lives” through our thoughts we give our “lives” “meaning.” Therefore, the “meaning” of “life” is nothing more than the “purpose” that we give it at this moment. As we change the focus of our “purpose” the meaning of our “life” changes.

I think that the place where most people get caught up is in thinking that they were given a “purpose” in life and they will not find the “meaning” of “life” until they know what there purpose is. Once everyone realizes that there “purpose” is created by them through their own thoughts, then they will find the “meaning” of “life,” and therefore be set free. The ego mind is what tries to convince us that we must discover our “purpose” and, therefore, discover the “meaning” of “life.” It is our Being that knows that is it the “purpose” and “meaning” of “life,” and therefore is.

As I first contemplated what you said in your reply, I looked back at the question again.  My first reaction is that “life” doesn't have a “meaning” because “life” is simply “being”.  To me “being” isn't “meaning”, given my initial definition as “purpose”, but that life or being just “is”, is a state of “being”.  But does a “state” of “being” actually have “meaning”?  That is what you say “being” and so, in that sense, we end up at the same place, re: being, but I'm still not sure about “meaning”.
I think that the above statement answers this beautifully.

For example, what does it really “mean” that I exist?  I'm just not sure it “means” anything.  So, I go back to the definition and try from there.  “Meaning” is a “message”.  So, what “message” can “life” convey? - that I exist as an awareness?, a “being” who has temporarily taken on form?, that I might express myself in a material world?  Possibly, it does “mean” that. I would say that you answered your own question. And of course we know, once the student can answer his or her own question, he or she is no longer the student. ~namaste~ *deep bow*

So, is “life” an expression of “being” in “matter”?  I think I could agree that it is.  That is how I would describe it.

Does “life” exist beyond “matter”?, “matter” seems to exist without “life”, without “being”, at least to some human perceptions.  Does “life” exist apart from matter?  “Life” is everything, therefore, nothing exists without “life”

Some people perceive “non-physical” energy forms that express “being”.  Are these truly states of “being”? and therefore, are these a kind of “life” that exists apart from matter?
Now you are touching on a whole different way of understanding “life.” “Life,” truly understood, all comes from the same source, “God.” And within this source is where our Being is. Matter is conceived of through this source, (God mind) consciousness. Consciousness is what God is and, therefore, what we are. Whether you are conscious of it or not, you as powerful as the almighty mind that created your Being. This is what the bible meant when it said, “And God said, Let us make man in our image, after our likeness.” –Genesis 1:26. Do you not see right in those words how God and us (mankind) created this physical world together? Knowing this we can truly say, and mean it, that we are all One. We came from the same source the same universal mind (God). Having said all of that, Matter is a state of mind (consciousness). Therefore, all things are Beings, the only difference between your state of Being and the state of Being of a rock is that you are more conscious of your consciousness. Said another way, you are more aware of your awareness, or you are more aware of your consciousness (God mind).

I hope that these helped to help you understand you Self better. For the more you understand your Self, the more I understand my Self.

~namaste~
*deep bow*
Brian.

p.s. Don my Good friend, I will reply to your wonderful comments when I have more time. Thank you both again for contributing to this wonderfully fun discussion.

6 days later
Don said

Brian,

It's alright, take a break.

Your friend,Don

Nara-Narayana : RADIATING LOVE ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥
6 days later
Nara-Narayana said

You right my friend. I can just call sometime and we can have a full conversation on the subject if we want. That will save my fingers from all of that typing. :-)

Your good friend,
Brian.

~namaste~
*deep bow*
Brian.

debyemm : Tree Hugging Dirt Worshiper
7 days later
debyemm said

I really like the way you took the topic and worked it through the Princeton definition.

>>>We are expressing the significance of ourselves (Being), as we see ourselves, through these bodies that we are using to share the “message” of the “meaning” of our Beings to the rest of the world.<<<
 
I think that you may have arrived at a good definition of meaning expressed through Being.  I also resonated well with your working through of the word “purpose” and find my instinctual leaning towards that word not remiss.

>>>As we continue to set intentions for our “lives” through our thoughts we give our “lives” “meaning.” …  the “meaning” of “life” is nothing more than the “purpose” that we give it at this moment.   As we change the focus of our “purpose” the meaning of our “life” changes.<<<

Yeah, the ego mind is well known for its delay tactics, or attempts to put off until tomorrow, what we should be about today.  I like the “evolving” or “changing” meaning or purpose, as you describe that, which flows with the unfolding of life.  I can easily “get” degrees of consciousness or awareness - human vs rock.  Actually, I feel great affinity for rocks.  I like the slowness with which they exist.

And the conversation with both of you has been fun.  I was even sharing the “gist” of it with my MIL while we sat in the car today (the boys were at the park burning off excess energy, so they would be settled enough to eat in a restaurant).  I find I am ever the student of my own teaching - all in one.  Searching deep to explain what is felt clarifies much.

Deborah

Don - there is true beauty and worthiness in your words -

>>>I really like being simple, I like it so much that that is what I want to master in, being simple.<<< 

7 days later
Don said

Brain, I could pick you up at the airport. ;-)

Deborah, thank you for your kind words and seeing the beauty in mine.

I just wrote a letter to a man, and I told him, all my life I had been trying to fill my cup. But I did not know what to put in it and had put very little in it , I never knew why I was like this, but I think without being aware of it, I knew deep inside that my cup was nearly full and I could not get much more into it. I never knew what I want to do or be so I just stayed simple. I just could not get interested in the things in this world. The little time I was in prison, I learned that I did not need to learn who I am, I needed to unlearn who I am not. My family or the world did not teach me who I am, they taught me to cover up who I am, I've always been who I am but covered up with what everybody thought or believed they were. If one only knew the power that is in being simple, they would sign up for classes on it. There was a song that I heard many times in many years but it did not mean anything to me until my old friend shared with me that I did not have a spirit, I am a spirit. and I have a body. The song is ” Let it be ”
Your friend,Don

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